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Whether you are sad because your life is low or happy because your life is high, you are a victim of circumstance.
People are searching for happiness. They think money will get them there. But there are plenty of people that have money that are not happy. I recently ran into one of my friends.
She told me that she was in the worst health of her life. Financially, she was also in a very tough spot but she was grateful and I could tell by the look in her eyes that she was happy. Genuinely happy.
There is a short cut to happiness and if you know the short cut, you can be happy even if you are broke or in poor health.
Stop The Judgement
The reason why people are not happy is because they think something should be a certain way but their circumstances don’t match.
In 2008, I lost everything. I lost my home, my car, my marriage. My son was just born and I wasn’t able to spend as much time with him as I wanted to. I was a mess.
It was a low time in my life. I was disappointed with myself and it took every ounce of energy for me to get out of bed. The reason why I was so sad was because I judged the situation that I was in. I felt that I should be back with my wife. I felt that I shouldn’t be homeless. I felt that I should see my son more.
But what if I didn’t judge the situation?
If I saw the situation as neither good nor bad then I wouldn’t have hurt so deeply. On the flipside, what if I wanted to be divorced, homeless and to spend time with my son? I would’ve been happy.
This isn’t to say that you should just accept our life circumstances. Just learn to live with what you have and be grateful for it. That’s not what I mean.
Adam and Eve
I am a Catholic raised Buddhist and I’ve heard the story of Adam and Eve many times.
This is how it was told to me.
Adam and Eve lived in the Garden of Eden. It was paradise to them. They had free reign and could do what they wanted. God gave them permission to enjoy the Garden of Paradise. They could eat anything they wanted accept the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge. If they ate that fruit, then they would be cast out of the Garden of Paradise and not allowed to return. However, they ended up eating the fruit and they were kicked out.
What if after eating the fruit they weren’t really “kicked” out of the garden? What if instead of them leaving the garden, the garden “changed” for them? Why would it change?
They gained knowledge from that tree, what if that knowledge included judgement and because they gained judgement, the garden was no longer paradise for them.
Without judgement, it was easy for Adam and Eve to be happy. Because they lacked judgement they didn’t mind that they had to work the soil so the plants to grow. They didn’t mind that they had to work in the hot sun. They didn’t mind that the bugs bit them. They didn’t mind all of these things that many of us find unpleasant.
However, since they ate the fruit, the Garden didn’t really change but their perception of the Garden did. With the knowledge of judgement, the garden was no longer paradise. They didn’t like it as much because the knowledge of judgement allowed them to recognize the discomfort.
If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. ~ Wayne Dyer
Judgement Leads To Disappointment
This isn’t about just accepting life’s circumstances. It’s about making the most of what you have. I want you to recognize that if you don’t like something, it’s because of your perception of it. It’s because you judge it as “bad”.
Do your best to take away the judgement because it leads to disappointment.
It’s hard to attract abundance if you are disappointed.
When you are disappointed, you have less energy, you are less motivated and you’ll have a difficult time getting yourself out of current situation.
Learn how to take the judgement away and make the most of what you have. This will give you a better attitude and more energy and that will lead to more opportunities and more people that want to do business with you.
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