The Real Key
If you want to be successful in network marketing or anything in life you have to do this.
It’s something that anyone can do. You don’t need a special skill set or a certain amount of intelligence. You don’t need a certain amount of money, education or even looks.
The one thing that you need to do to truly become successful is forgive yourself.
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It’s about forgiving yourself.
Forgiving yourself can be quite difficult for many people.
We have all made mistakes. Some of us think that what we have done is unforgivable because they are unfixable. That’s because it’s easier to forgive others. After all, they don’t live in your head, reading you the same old riot act.
As a result, we go through life, with a heavy heart and though we might not admit it, we are miserable.
Forgiving yourself is key to living a great life.
Why is forgiving yourself so important?
If you don’t forgive yourself, you will never be as successful as you deserve to be.
Life might be good, it may even be great but it unless you forgive yourself, you won’t reach your highest potential.
Achievement does not have to precede forgiveness.
Many people think that they have to reach a certain level of success BEFORE they can forgive themselves.
Maybe they are like me. I had a successful business but I lost it all.
I lost my house, my car and my marriage.
I used to think to myself, “I’ll forgive myself once I get wealthy again. Once I get wealthy, then I’ll feel worthy.”
I had it backwards.
Why does forgiving yourself allow you to be successful?
If you don’t forgive yourself, you’ll always have a heavy feeling of doubt or unworthiness. We as humans are the only species who suffer more than once for making a mistake. Often we replay a mistake we have made in our head and wonder what we could have done different and if we HAD done something different, how would that change the outcome of things? Some of us let it consume too much of our precious time.
If you don’t forgive yourself, not only will you waste time thinking about it, you’ll also self sabotage yourself because you don’t feel worthy. If you don’t feel worthy, you won’t try as hard. You’ll procrastinate. You’ll play small.
The very moment you forgive yourself, you’ll step into your own power. You’ll feel worthy, you’ll stop self sabotage, you’ll stop procrastinating and you’ll play big.
That’s the real secret. Forgive yourself and you’ll feel worthy enough and start to really play big.
Like I said before, I had it backwards.
It’s like thinking that
-you have to lose weight before you diet and exercise.
-you have to flexible before you practice yoga
-you have educated before you go to school.
That’s backwards thinking isn’t it?
You must forgive yourself:
“You must forgive yourself so that you can be successful, not be successful so that you can forgive yourself.”
“You must feel worthy so that you can be successful, not be successful so that you can feel worthy.”
Forgive yourself and play big
If you know that life isn’t as great as you deserve or as your family and kids deserve then there is one big barrier that will assist you.
Once you truly forgive yourself, you’ll drop all of the excuses.
Having no time, no money, not enough resources or not know how to do won’t matter once you forgive yourself and start playing big.
There are people who have less time, less money, less education and who are even uglier than you that have made it and the only different action they took is that they played bigger. They played bigger because they forgave themselves and felt worthy.
If you would like to learn how to forgive yourself, there is a wiki about it here: http://www.wikihow.com/Forgive-Yourself
If you would like to see some bible verses about forgiveness they are located here: http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Forgiving-Yourself/
10 ways to forgive yourself: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11454/10-ways-to-forgive-yourself-let-go-of-the-past.html
How do you know when you have forgiven yourself?
You know you have done it when the memory gives you no more pain or anger. It’s as simple as that. You can say, ‘I am free of this.’
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